40 Tips for Better Life

Just like the question, “What is happiness?“, what constitutes a better life is something very subjective and something which we have to search within ourselves. We have to connect with our inner selves in order to know what is meant by a better life for us. To some people, better lives can be to achieve great financial successes or happy families. And to others, better lives could be just having food to eat to fight off hunger, clothes to wear to keep themselves warmth and shelters from the sun and rain. To me, happiness directly link to a better life – when I am happy, naturally it is already considered a better life. And that leads to the question of what is happiness? Happiness is to know what we want in life. We might not always know what happiness to us is. Thus we have to constantly ask ourselves what we want in our lives. Know what we want in our lives and happiness will follow

“It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.” – Dale Carnegie

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.

3. Buy a DVD Recorder and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.

4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, ‘My purpose is to __________ today.’

5. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2007!

7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, tai chi, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives. (Meditation can be a good way to help us to connect to our inner selves.)

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.” – T.E. Lawrence

10. Eat more food that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink green tea and plenty of water.. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Clear clutters from your house, your car, your desk and let new and flowing energy into your life.

14. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. (Realize that challenges are not here in our lives to stop us but to help us grow!)

16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out credit charge card.

17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires! away.

18. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good. (I remember a quotation from someone that goes, “Life will sometimes deal us bad cards and we have to learn to play to win.”)

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. (Hate is a very negative energy. I remembered reading from someone blog last week and she shared this, “I love to love and I hate to hate.” We must always focus on positive energy.)

20. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

23. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. (Understand that you and only you are in charge of your life. You may not always be able to choose the situation, but you can choose your reaction to the situation. You have the power to choose.)

25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: ‘In five years, will this matter?’

26. Forgive everyone for everything.

27. What other people think of you is none of your business.

“I will not let what others say about me affect me as long as I know it is not the truth.” – Abraham Lincoln

28. GOD heals almost everything.

29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

31. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

32. Envy is a waste of time! . You already have all you need.

33. The best is yet to come.

34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

35. Do the right thing!

36. Call your family often. (Or email them to death!!!) Hey I’m thinking of ya!

37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.

38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

May you have lesser troubles, more blessings and happiness coming through your door!

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10 thoughts on “40 Tips for Better Life

  1. Brad

    From all of the personal work I have done it has boiled down to implementing the THANKs principles on a daily basis. Fear is so cunning and it is always looking for a door to come in and feed on. It is like a parasite that just wants to eat a good meal. I have found that what all of us as humans really are looking for is a way to feel connected. Fear so often wants to make us terminally unique and create many excuses as to why we can legitimize our feelings of superiority or inferiority and stay separated. As well, it tells us we may lose something we feel we need to hold onto or not get something we believe we have to have or are entitled to. One thing is for sure, the more I live in my fear, the more fear I keep producing. It will always create distorted projections about the future. The THANKs princples(Trustworthiness, Honesty, Authenticity, Neutrality, Kindness, and Surrender) truly are the antidote to overcoming fear based thought patterns. And, it is not easy. I have had to work with mentors, sponsors, spiritual teachers and people much wiser then myself over the course of many years in order to make some in roads to effectively purge out the fear that dwells within. Little by little I find my self in less fear and connected to my AUTHENTICITY. At this core place dwells compassion, deep empathy, tolerance of others, peace of mind and love in my heart. FDR said in his inaugural address that there is nothing to fear but fear itself. What I have come to learn in my own personal experience is that \”There is nothing to fear\”.

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  2. Symphony of Love Post author

    Hi Brad, thanks for sharing the THANKs principle. It is certainly a principle that many other and even I can apply. Personally how I curb fear is by facing fear in its face. The things which I fear doing I do more and as I do more, I found that I fear lesser and lesser. For example, I was once fearful of giving presentations or speeches. I just do more presentations and speeches until the point I am enjoying doing that now.

  3. Mr. Javo

    Wow these are great tips, really. I think that I live a happy life, I daily make the most of these 40 tips. Anyways, is glad to remind myself that so simple things like these, but which make you happier.

    Thanks for sharing :).

  4. Symphony of Love Post author

    Hi Mr. Javo, thanks for dropping by. Glad to hear that you are making good use of most of these 40 tips and you are right, most times it simple things like these that can really make a us happier 🙂

  5. Mr Javo

    Hi everyone, I would like to share this tips of mine with you:

    40. “We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion” – Tool

    41. Self Knowledge. Know yourself, your abilities, weaknesses, skills to develop, your needs.

    42. Break your own limits. Remember that you don’t have limits, everything is absolutely possible. The very worst mistake you can ever do in the life, is to think that you are not capable of.

    43. Don’t be afraid to loneliness. Enjoy either of yourself or with others (sharing).

    44. Act based on mutual benefits, WIN-WIN situations.

    45. Be independent and act interdependently.

    46. Be proactive.

    47. Don’t look for approval.

    48. Accept yourself as you are.

    49. Don’t look for “someone” who makes you happy. Happiness is only inside you, be willing of sharing your happiness with others.

    50. Study and work the hardest. Love what you do, be creative and innovative.

    51. Have good relationships, discard everything that makes you unhappy, angry, etc….

    52. You don’t need to abuse of your power. You maximum power resides in the love to yourself.

    53. The human being who is happy with itself, avoid to involve with those who are not open to happiness, although it’s willing to inspire and educate those who really aim that state.

    I hope you like them 🙂

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  6. Symphony of Love Post author

    @ Mr. Javo, thank you for the additional tips. I think accepting oneself is very important; how very often have we heard, “in order for others to love us, we must love ourselves first.” And you certainly make sense when you said, “happiness is only inside you.” Happiness is something within everyone and one only has to look inside oneself. The question is not ‘what is happiness’ but ‘what happiness means to me?’