Women should stand with their toes pointed at a slightly inward angle and their feet should be no more than six inches apart from the other. For men, a dominant stanch is what draws in women. Men are able to take up a larger area of space without looking superior and their toes should point outward with their feet approximately six to ten inches apart.

If you are a man who has trouble attracting women, wear clothes that are conservative in style. This works for your haircut as well. Always remember to hold your head up when you are out in public and speaking with others and speak a little faster as it makes you appear both very competent as well as assertive.

Body language speaks volumes to the opposite sex so do not slouch, appear bored, fold your arms and do not engage in chewing your fingernails, gum or even ice cubes. The chewing action translates to feelings of frustration, nervousness or anxiety and these are all turnoffs for the opposite sex.

Smiling puts other individuals at ease and makes you appear warm, friendly and approachable. Make sure though that you are wearing a normal, regular smile and not a phony, plastered on smile. Also always keep eye contact with a person you are conversing with and keep the tone of your voice pleasant and interested in the conversation. Remember that being a good listener makes you more attractive as well.

Color has a way of drawing in the opposite sex and different colors work for men and women. The color blue attracts women to men as blue often symbolizes that a man is capable of being monogamous, is stable, dependable and loyal. Blue is a reassuring color for a woman. It is recommended that women wear a color that complements their skin tone to attract men and for most women that means a pink or peach color which also makes them appear approachable. Pink is a vulnerable shade that is very feminine and for that reason it appeals to the protective side of a man’s nature. As well pink gives the skin a healthy look, which is always good.

Strong women often enjoy wearing strong colors such as deep red, plum or burgundy and a man who cannot handle this kind of a woman is not likely to approach one wearing any of these shades. Red is a very seductive, sensual color but it is also the color that stands for both sex and power. Red is exciting and gets the adrenalin racing but always wear it with caution.

The color to avoid for both sexes is the yellowish green shade that looks like a caterpillar. This shade is not advisable to wear for either men or women who wish to attract the opposite sex. In fact this color often does not complement many people’s skin coloring.

Scents play a role in attraction and studies have shown that men are attracted to the scents of vanilla and cinnamon while women like the smell of black licorice. If you can incorporate any of these into your attraction repertoire then go ahead and do so!

It is always advisable to look your best and to smell your best as women notice these things right away. Always, always arrive for the date on time. Never be late but do not be too early either. If you arrive late, especially if you are in the early stages of dating then to a woman this looks like either you are going to stand her up or you do not care about the evening ahead as much as you should. In the same way do not arrive too early at her home or she is likely to feel awkward if she is not ready to go yet. If you are meeting at a restaurant or a coffee shop, always be the first to arrive.

Flowers are a nice gesture towards any woman, regardless of whether this is the first time you are taking her out or if you have been dating for weeks, months or even longer. Some people think that flowers are old fashioned and out dated but women appreciate the small details and a man who brings a flower or flowers will be thought fondly of. What type of flowers you bring is not as important as the fact that you chose to bring them at all.

All women want to be treated like the ladies they are so men always remember to open car doors, restaurant doors, movie theatre doors and the like for the object of your affection. Pull out her chair for her at a restaurant and give her time to sit down before you do so. When you open a door for her, let her walk in ahead of you and never rush in ahead of her. Many people perceive this to be rude for a man to do. Show respect at all times and your date will notice and will be pleased.

Men’s dating tips would not be complete without revealing the fact that having a winning sense of humor goes a long way in impressing a woman. Laughter is something that both sexes share and it is advantageous for a man to be able to take a lighthearted approach on a date and help make a woman feel at ease by making her laugh. Just make sure your humor is not in any way derogatory to any particular group of people and make sure it is not sexist or crude. Your all time favorite dirty jokes are better left for another time.

Unless you work together, do not talk shop with a person you are out with. In other words do not bore her with all of the details about your occupation. If she asks you about your job, answer her honestly but keep it brief. If you want to know a little something about her job then go ahead and ask but for the most part stick with topics that allow you to get to know her better.

1) Timing is important – Timing as in ‘on time’. No matter what they say, there is no such thing as ‘fashionably late’. For the first date, this can give the guy jitters and make him think that you’ve stood him up. For the later dates, having him wait for you in the living room for half an hour with either your roommate, your sister or, worse, your father is not something you want him to do – whether it be for the embarrassing stories or Dad’s ‘eyes of doom’. 

2) Keep your head on straight – Yes, we all know dates are supposed to be fun, but knowing what’s going on is important both for your own safety and for your love life. Is your date acting suspiciously or is he just nervous? Maybe you’d want to end the date early or do something to calm him down. Is he taking notice of what you’re wearing or just ogling? The choice to either wink at him or just stare knowingly is up to you. Is his attention on you or the girl next to you? You might wish to reward him with a smile or a slap. Situational awareness is not just for soldiers on the front but also for young women on the prowl. 

3) Be nice – Have a positive attitude, find things that you like and tell him. Compliment him about his clothes, how he looks and how well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makes him feel important. It also shows him that you’re taking notice of him and you appreciate him. But, don’t lie. Like I said, look at the bright side of things – the service of the restaurant may have been slow but the ambience was terrific.

4) Do not complain – This may be technically part of tip three, but it deserves a separate heading. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tell him that something is wrong or something makes you uncomfortable. The way you phrase it and the tone you use is important here. ‘Venting’, like we do with our girl friends, is not going to go over well with him since he’ll probably misinterpret it. Grin and bear it then tell him after the date in calmly what your problem was. Trust me, he’ll understand and he’ll try to make it up to you.

5) Enjoy the date – A date is a chance to get to know each other and to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to be hyper-critical, but just take things in your stride. If you’re not having fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will get nervous which will probably start ruining the experience for both of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him see the real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he will appreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesn’t like you for you, why should you keep on dating?

6) Afterwards, show interest – If you really like the guy, waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking. You know he’s interested and you’re definitely interested, you’re just waiting for him to call you so you could arrange another date. Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his act together and work up the courage to call. If he doesn’t call, he’s probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence. Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you had fun and give hints. No matter how dense he is, he should then pick up on it and ask you for another date!

7) Be consistent – For those who’ve crossed the ‘First Date’ Rubicon, try maintaining the impression you made on him during the first date. Men don’t like surprises except, of course, if they plan them. This doesn’t mean, however, that you’ll just give him the first date you. Talk to each other, both on and off dates, to get to know each other more. What he got on the first date was a sneak peek, what he should get from your continued dating should be the entire reel.

Well, there they are seven tips for dating success! Hopefully, this advice could help lead you through today’s tough tangle of relationships. Happy hunting!

Men sometimes struggle with showing the women in their lives, be they women he’s interested in romantically, friends, or relatives, how they feel. Many men find the words just too difficult to say, so they try to make it clear with actions. Flowers make an excellent gift choice for any woman.

Rebecca Cole, host of the Discovery Channel show Surprise by Design and floral expert, says that any time is the right time for sending flowers to a woman. In fact, research indicates that 96 percent of women love the surprise of an unexpected gift of flowers. “Guys should know that they don’t have to wait for a special occasion to give flowers. Make an occasion by sending flowers to the woman in your life, just because. They’ll never forget it,” says Cole.

Of course, you want to know that you’re sending the right thing to express your true feelings. Your florist can help, but in the meantime, here are a few tips:

* Flowers for a New Romance: When a relationship is new, it can sometimes be difficult for a man to let a woman know she’s special to him. Cole suggests a passionate arrangement of flowers in reds, oranges, golds, and hot pinks. Don’t forget to add a card with a personal message.

* Flowers for True Love: Even an established relationship needs a touch of romance now and then. To show his romantic side, a man should make it a point to remember what kinds of flowers were used in the wedding ceremony, or what he gave her on a first date, and other flowers from special occasions. Then, to let her know how important those events were to him, too, he can send her an arrangement including those kinds of flowers, which will have an enormous impact.

* Flowers for Female Relatives: Mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and sisters are just as important as any romantic interests in a man’s life. To remind these special women of their importance, Cole suggests sending flowering plants or garden-style arrangements.

* Flowers for Female Friends: Female friends enjoy receiving flowers from their male friends and colleagues even when there’s no romantic link. To let a female friend know he’s thinking of her, Cole suggests a bouquet with a very natural, just-picked feel.

Even a guy like Matthew McConaughy can boost his romantic appeal with a bouquet of beautiful flowers. But, you don’t have to be one of the nation’s leading romantic figures to let the women in your life know you care. Your florist can help you order the right flowers for any person on any occasion.